Beyond comfort zone 人生的初期別太任性

〈They shoot single people, don't they?〉單身有罪？

"If I end up old and alone, it's all your fault."

They said, ''Single and Fabulous!''
They did not say, ''Single and Fabulous?'
That question mark is hostile.

While women are certainly
no strangers to faking it......we faked our hair color, capsize.
Hell, we've even faked fur.
I couldn't help but wonder, has fear of being alone......suddenly raised the bar on faking?
Are we faking more than orgasms?
Are we faking entire relationships?
Is it better to fake it than be alone?

"Maybe I was the one who was faking it.
All these years faking to myself that I was happy being single."

He was one of those men who faked a future......to get what he wanted in the present More water?

While she had no problem faking orgasms......she could never fake intimacy.

It was a perfectly timed double fake.

some-times it's better to be alone than fake it.


對慾望城市的探討較少著墨在city的部分
City如何建構了single?提供了怎樣的空間、消費等讓單身生活型態/sex更活躍發展？
gay作為一種身份認同本身就包含有都市性（城市匿名性的可能

資本主義怎樣建構單身： 單身的商品化，成為一種可欲的生活風格
跟社會結構的轉變有什麼關連，為什麼現在有大量的單身出現？（物質）
單身真的快樂嗎？靠有錢有閒堆出來的
最願意花錢的：頂客族or gay couple
為什麼直女最好的朋友是gay？之間sexuality的連結性為何
父權體制的力量依然收編了這些看似享受單身快樂的女人
風行的大眾文化商品要能提供某種解決焦慮、烏托邦的想像
單身很需要面臨壓力